A certain adult in my family always yells at me for no reason at all because of either something my brother does or just because they want to. They threaten to send me to military school if I don't "Shape-up", even though I didn't do anything. When I try to talk to them, they don't listen and don't do anything.
Try getting their attention so they have to listen and talk it over with them. If it doesn't work talk to a school counselor.
Problem: I get frustrated when an adult is in the room and they think," Oh, you're there." When there is something needed to be done, the adult never does it, they tell the kid in the room to do it like they can't do it themselves.
Solution: I know how this fells, my dad does it to me all the time. Try to talk to them in a respectful way, letting them know how you fell. If this problem continues, try asking another mature adult that you trust what they would do and see if they can help.
"I have trouble with teachers. It seems that because they are used to being in power that they don't listen very well. They are hard to teach."
~Anonymous, troubled student
I think that you should maybe pull your teacher aside after or before school to talk to them alone and say how you're feeling and take a moment to explain what you need to. I have troubles like this too, so if they interrupt, I would tell them "You're interrupting. I'm trying to make a point." or something of that matter and continue what you were saying. If that doesn't work, wait for them to finish and tell them. If they walk away without letting you finish, then they're not a very good teacher and they should not be working at a school. Teachers are supposed to hear student's needs. If they don't care, then they have every right, every reason, and every right reason to leave the school.
The problem is that they expect you to do what they tell you to do. The thing is they are not your Mom or Dad they are Adults not in your family. I say leave me alone, don't bother me your not the boss of me.
Well I think that you should tell them the way you fell unless they are someone who could tell you what to do. But if they are just someone that is an adult that thinks they can boss you around tell them to do it for a change but if they are some one who can tell you what to do then I am not telling you to tell them no I think then you would just have to do as they say
The person I chose said a teacher was saying I had a bad grade and was making fun of me IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE CLASS. Another time I was asking a friend for help and it just so happened to be a guy and she said "You two stop flirting" and now everyone asks me if we are still dating when we were not in the first place. UGH!
Solution- I think that you should talk to her about it or just deal with it the best you can.
My mom and dad are divorcing and my mom has been in a really bad mood lately. What can i do? Also my dad gets really mad when i dont do my homework and i try to tell him why but he just doesnt listen. What do i do?
Well for your mom i would just be concerned on making her happy. Give her a picture or flowers and l her your there for her. And tell your dad this is who i am im sorry if you dont like like it but i cant change my ways. Also tell him i'm sorry if you dont like it but tell him it would be great if he would understand becuase you care about his opinion
The problem is that they expect you to do what they tell you to do. The thing is they are not your mom or your dad they are adults not in your family. I say leave me alone your not the boss of me.
Solution: I think you should tell them that you don't like to be told what to do. And if that doesn't work well i think you just might have to deal with it because they really do have the right to tell you what to do because they are adults and you aren't. I hope this might help you.
Yes! I think in general when i talk to adults i find myself getting frustrated. Adults that are older, dont really understand the "language of our generation" I guess you could say. We might say something being sarcastic or funny and get (for example in school) detention or flat out yelled at for being rude. Then we get upset and teachers are upset because neither of us feel as if were getting respect, when really it was a misunderstanding.
The person I chose has no problem with adults on anything.
ReplyDeleteI think you should continue your relations.
A certain adult in my family always yells at me for no reason at all because of either something my brother does or just because they want to. They threaten to send me to military school if I don't "Shape-up", even though I didn't do anything. When I try to talk to them, they don't listen and don't do anything.
ReplyDeleteTry getting their attention so they have to listen and talk it over with them. If it doesn't work talk to a school counselor.
-Anon
Problem: I get frustrated when an adult is in the room and they think," Oh, you're there." When there is something needed to be done, the adult never does it, they tell the kid in the room to do it like they can't do it themselves.
ReplyDeleteSolution: I know how this fells, my dad does it to me all the time. Try to talk to them in a respectful way, letting them know how you fell. If this problem continues, try asking another mature adult that you trust what they would do and see if they can help.
"I have trouble with teachers. It seems that because they are used to being in power that they don't listen very well. They are hard to teach."
ReplyDelete~Anonymous, troubled student
I think that you should maybe pull your teacher aside after or before school to talk to them alone and say how you're feeling and take a moment to explain what you need to. I have troubles like this too, so if they interrupt, I would tell them "You're interrupting. I'm trying to make a point." or something of that matter and continue what you were saying. If that doesn't work, wait for them to finish and tell them. If they walk away without letting you finish, then they're not a very good teacher and they should not be working at a school. Teachers are supposed to hear student's needs. If they don't care, then they have every right, every reason, and every right reason to leave the school.
The problem is that they expect you to do what they tell you to do. The thing is they are not your Mom or Dad they are Adults not in your family. I say leave me alone, don't bother me your not the boss of me.
ReplyDeleteWell I think that you should tell them the way you fell unless they are someone who could tell you what to do. But if they are just someone that is an adult that thinks they can boss you around tell them to do it for a change but if they are some one who can tell you what to do then I am not telling you to tell them no I think then you would just have to do as they say
The person I chose said a teacher was saying I had a bad grade and was making fun of me IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE CLASS. Another time I was asking a friend for help and it just so happened to be a guy and she said "You two stop flirting" and now everyone asks me if we are still dating when we were not in the first place. UGH!
ReplyDeleteSolution- I think that you should talk to her about it or just deal with it the best you can.
My mom and dad are divorcing and my mom has been in a really bad mood lately. What can i do?
ReplyDeleteAlso my dad gets really mad when i dont do my homework and i try to tell him why but he just doesnt listen. What do i do?
Well for your mom i would just be concerned on making her happy. Give her a picture or flowers and l her your there for her.
And tell your dad this is who i am im sorry if you dont like like it but i cant change my ways. Also tell him i'm sorry if you dont like it but tell him it would be great if he would understand becuase you care about his opinion
The problem: He says some of the teachers yell at him and other students for just walking down the hallway.
ReplyDeleteThe solution: You know you aren't supposed to be in the hallway at anytime except during class change.
The problem is that they expect you to do what they tell you to do. The thing is they are not your mom or your dad they are adults not in your family. I say leave me alone your not the boss of me.
ReplyDeleteSolution: I think you should tell them that you don't like to be told what to do. And if that doesn't work well i think you just might have to deal with it because they really do have the right to tell you what to do because they are adults and you aren't. I hope this might help you.
Because of getting yelled at by adults at home and at school I get angry and I don't know what to do with all of the rage!
ReplyDeleteHELP ME!
Okay here is what you need to do, you have to treat adults nicely!
Yes! I think in general when i talk to adults i find myself getting frustrated. Adults that are older, dont really understand the "language of our generation" I guess you could say. We might say something being sarcastic or funny and get (for example in school) detention or flat out yelled at for being rude. Then we get upset and teachers are upset because neither of us feel as if were getting respect, when really it was a misunderstanding.
ReplyDelete